The mind and body are closely linked. IMO anorexia, fibromyalgia, eczema, depression, etc are all linked to long term stress/abuse.
I know someone with fibromyalgia, and I'm pretty sure its her parents fault. She doesn't blame them, they are 'perfect' parents and 'love' her sooo much.
She is an only child, over protected, controlled they always seem to be there monitoring where she is, who shes with. If she goes out they go too and wait, and wait, to give her a lift home. Shes nearly 30! Let her find her own way home!
People say awww, they love her so much.
I don't think they do, I think they are narcissistic engulfing control freaks that are destroying her.
To keep her caged like that, to live parasitically through her is cruel and selfish.
I want to tell her but will she believe me, she insists 'they only want the best for her' does she even want to know? To be told that your parents only love themselves and not you is not what people want to hear. Will I do more harm than good?
So far I said very little.
I do not like her parents one bit.
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