I am not sure why he needs to adjust his feelings. She feels repulsed to even hold his hand yet he needs to adjust his feelings? doesn't seem fair.

If somebody is not into me I shouldn't be expected to adjust my feelings. Common decency would be for a man to not date me if he isn't feeling it, and let me go so we both have a chance to find happiness rather than waste our time.

I wonder if roles were reversed and this was a guy posting, women would tell him to not string poor girl along. But since it is a woman, who strings the guy along, somehow it is ok.

Wanting to spend time with ones girlfriend and wanting intimacy doesn't mean one is clingy or needy. It is rather normal


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