SandyWeb, when i got my divorce, the common line was the casual "surely you need sex now, you're divorced"!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my mouth would drop open and that would end that "friendship". finally, i told a man at the grocery store that i was doing very well on my OWN (he almost fainted) and slowly but surely they quit approaching me.

i've never, ever had any interest in a threesome, foursome, etc. just a twosome....... or a onesome.

i went 8 years without sex. no big deal. life is about change and adjustments and we have growth from that.

xoxoxo pat