IMO and just my opinion, you should work like hell to enrich your marriage, put your heart and soul into and try your damnest to make it work,counciling and what ever else you can think of...,, if after a true effort you still feel the same way then go your own way,,but you owe it to your family to really try to make it work...either way good luck,,in the end it is your choice....only you know what is really happening in your heart and mind.....