I can so relate like many others to your dilemma sammi. Life is full of changes both externally and internally. We all have to work through them the best we can. I like to take the approach that it is all a learning experience and we grow from those experiences. I like to believe that each experience has a purpose and a meaning to our lives.

What has worked for me during the process of finding who I am and defining who I am is volunteering. It may or may not work for you. But I have found that when I give of myself to a friend, an organization, a stranger, a child, what I receive in return from that gesture of volunteering is so much more than I could have ever dreamed. What I receive fills me up and helps define who and what I am. It opens me to more possibilities for myself to learn and grow.

I hope that soon you can find something that will bring meaning to you, that will help fill you and help define you.

Hugssss
J