I think you summed it up perfectly and succinctly. If you can't imagine sitting down and talking this out with him then print this and hand it to him. Again, you wrote it out perfectly. Walk away and let him read it. If he rants about it, walk away again until he calms down. At this point, what do you have to lose? Your at your wits end and I think you'll feel better letting him know what it's been like living with him. He's a bully. If you feel threatened, tell him so and that you won't hesitate to call 911. He won't like it, but he'll know it's true. We all know when we're misbehaving and REALLY don't like it when we're called out on it after getting away with it for so long.