A close family member said something mean to me today. I told them they owed me an apology and went on my way. I didn't feel hurt, I was somewhat annoyed, Now hours later I am not sure if I should have had feelings of hurt and had turned them off. Or I really wasn't hurt. As I think of the event now hours later I think my feelings were hurt because what was said was mean and uncalled for. But now I am also questioning whether my feelings of hurt are coming from an intellectual introspective assessment of what happened. Or are an actual emotional reaction irrespective of my intellectual assessment. Has anyone had a similar experience?