Thanks guys for all your responses. I think everyone deserves a second chance, the only thing for me is the feeling afterwards, after the person deserted you. Can the relationship ever be the same again? It just feels to me like how do I trust that person again? When they did forsake you, it hurt very much. As a result, your feeling about that person has changed forever. I don't know if I would ever be able to accept that person fully again. Maybe that makes me a bad person? It's just so hard, how do you do it?