So BP has caused a lot of issues in our lives right? We can all agree on that I think. What types of problems has it caused in your relationships w/ your s.o.'s? It literally has cancelled my wedding, called off/ended my engagement multiple times. I was supposed to get married last July and about 4 weeks before the wedding, we cancelled everything. We have gotten into so many HUGE fights, he has taken the ring back probably 4-5 times now. I'm actually ringless right now. My BEAUTIFUL dress still is hanging at his mom's house, waiting for our "perfect day". Now I don't know if that day will ever come.

The thing is, every time we argue, he throws out "I can't talk to you when your manic!!" every single time. I'm NOT manic 24/7. Sometimes he just p's me off and I'm angry. Just because I'm angry doesn't mean I'm manic. He thinks' because he has a degree in Sociology with a minor in Psych that he "knows everything" about human behavior and all that's related to psychology. When we're "good" he'll say "I know it's not your fault, and you can't help it..." but when we're fighting it's a whole different story.

My daughter and I are moving out (as soon as I can get the money for a deposit and all that goes into getting a place) as "we can't live in the same house if you're not going to follow the rules we set for each other, blah blah blah... you need to have your own place where you can do your own thing your way and not have to worry about checking in with me blah blah blah..."

What are your experiences with BP and relationships? Do they EVER work???

UUGGHH....