I couldn't have said it better, Velouria. Forums sure can turn catty at times. Try to stay out of the cattiness—some threads can turn into cesspools of negativity and fast!

Psychcentral is great, though. I've seen a few posts go sour (most of the time I think people just take things the wrong way though), but everyone's been fantastic to me here. I love how helpful everyone is. This is a safe place.