T, I'm feeling a bit, well, unsettled at the moment with my h's drama. On the surface, I know it's HIS drama, it's HIS circus, and I need to let him deal with it. But it's affecting me in a deep way that I don't understand. I'm working with it t, the way you have taught me. I have so many tools at my disposal now and I'm using them. I'm trying in small ways to share what I have learned in therapy with him to try to help him get past this. He's really letting it mess him up and it hurts me to watch. Hopefully this will all be worked out before we talk again so I can share with you how I handled it.