I feel like for me personally it has robbed me of getting into my career and most importantly it has put my husband thru so much that he for sure didn't sign up for. But then I come on here everyday and I read your stories and I realize it could be so much worse for me and this is what pushes me forward. I'm probably not evaluating everything that I have gone thru because I just don't want to think about it, and a lot of things I don't even remember, so maybe there is more to my story. I just want to say I have so much admiration for you guys and see strength and determination.