Well you can't change the past , you can guide your future. Exam the past and learn from your poor choices , put as many hurdles in your way of doing whatever that might just be a repeat of the past... Sometimes shyt happens regardless of all the stuff you can do to avoid a crash and burn.... Again look at it examine it, make peace with it and take the step forward , if your always looking back its easy to fall into a gaping hole you missed while looking back instead of in front of you.

Yeah I am an upbeat person in general , I am sure a few people get tired of my positive thinking around here, lol ... trust me I fall down many times and have to haul myself back into place.I try to find that silver lining as much as I can. I often pull out the fake it til I make it , Many times I just hang on white knuckles and ride it out..... . It is what helps me keep my life moving along.