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Old Mar 02, 2015, 12:22 PM
jasmine30 jasmine30 is offline
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I don't know how to quote a reply, but to "A_Red_Panda",
No, my butt was not exposed naked, Lol! There are times when he kiss my butt naked. BUT even when I have Underwear or Jeans on, he still kiss it.

He does Not spank my butt, Not even light spanking. He does Not do kinky stuff to my butt. None of us are into kinky stuff. He just simply put his lips on my butt cheek and kiss. I think it become a routine now, he been doing this everyday eversince we got married since Februrary 6th last month.

He kiss my butt cheek when he was my BF, but that was like once in a while. Now is like EVERYDAY, whenever he have the chance, whenever he's home.
I guess alot of affection washing all over me at once, I'm overwhelmed, I'm just NOT used to it. Considering I grew up in a COLD family that does not show affection, now too much affection it just overwhelmed me.

My husband been working alot. He gonna be working this till the end of the year, we trying to save up money fast as we can for a house down-payment.
So the other day, on Friday, he had half a day off. I was so happy. I told him I want to go see a movie. It been sooo long since last time we go see a movie in theater together. I miss our dating days back then, I’m thrilled!! That I to go to the movie with him.

So I get THRILLED, Over-Thrilled!! That I to go to movie with hubby. But then when I lay in bed and he would kiss my butt cheek. And I get awkward, I don’t feel any thrilled at all. What is wrong? I’m NOT thrilled that my hubby put his lips on my butt and give it a kiss, BUT then I get OVER-THRILLED when I went see movie with him? WTH!!
You see, obvious his ‘Physical touch’ love language is not my style. Kissing won’t turn me on, but go to the movie will! I don't know what is wrong with me, we like speaking two difference love languages.

He working 2 jobs, labor physical jobs too, so he sure is tired. After work, all he have time for is eat, shower and sleep. Seeing how tired he is but still affectionate to me, I don't know how to open my mouth and mentioned to him about the 'butt cheek kiss".
I just think I need more time to get used to it. If this is how he gonna feel love by his wife then I guess I just have to let him do it.