My T. has seen me and my husband through the years. He sent her a text about wanting to know how to support me after my mom died. She wouldn't respond and explained that she would never respond because she is only going to communicate with me. Otherwise, it would have given my H the impression I AM in therapy and what if I didn't want him to know.

It seems like they were doing it out of genuine care but I would actually ask your T. not to reply to any emails regarding you.