Self-harm was how I use to fix social issues, relationships ending, and family issues. I got help shortly after I started when I was 16. I haven't cut myself or injured myself in five years, but know i have to live with the scars of wanting to be dead. The reasons I quit, was because it was hurting my friends, family, and myself. It was mentally screwing me up. Don't ever think you can't stop, there is resources to help you stop.