Shaymus:

I can almost promise you that a good therapist will spot your daughter’s skewed perception of reality. There are key words to look for, like when your daughter says “she always” and “I never”…or when she uses phrases like “they do this to me” (as if the world is happening TO her and she has no control over it). There are also clues as to how she accepts (or refuses to accept) responsibility for her own behaviors.

Ultimately, the goal for this girl will be to “own” her thoughts and actions and take personal responsibility for how she interacts with (and reacts to) other people in her life. She will also need to realize her own 'power' and how she does have the ability to positively impact the world around her.

Relax and trust (for the moment) the process…