I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She spoils the **** out of me all the time, never had a woman do this. She's older than me. Im 25 shes 40. I work and make great money myself, she just does this out of her own doing. I don't ask her for anything. However I notice if she's on her phone she'll click it off. But she doesn't hesitate to let me use it if I ask for it. Also, at one point I had left my credit card in her car. I noticed a withdrawal of 140$ at 8:17am in the morning, with it being at the location of her job. I confronted her about this and she denied it. The bank refunded me, however I don't understand, because she pays for everything all the time. It frustrates me because she'll pay for **** without me knowing. Go behind my back to the waiters/waitresses at the restaurant and pay the bill. Buys me all sorts of ****, so I asked myself, why would she steal 140$? I look for her mail, because you know if someone's messing around when they're spending money somewhere. Our lifestyle routine pattern hasn't seemed to change at all. But still I get this strange feeling that she's cheating on me. I have OCD and anxiety too so could I be paranoid?