I believe the ones I see to be cold and impervious and they act that way - perhaps it is all a ruse and acting job. But the same is true for those who think and believe and want the therapist to be all caring and pervious and so forth -they are just as likely to be acting a part as are the two I see. Just because someone carves out a view of them as caring and so on and another wants the opposite does not make the one who thinks (and all any client has is supposition) they are detached wrong.