Her codependent books have helped me alot. Just found another book that's been like reading my life story, "You're Not Crazy, You're Codependent..." by Jeanette Elizabeth Menter. I think it's from 2012.
The editing is a little off, but it's really hitting so close to home-- it's hard to read..but helping alot.

Thought I'd pass along for those that hadn't heard of it...