So, the one part of your post "But I'll tell you what IS immoral. Women who spent their younger years enjoying the attention and company of all kinds of young attractive guys telling guys like me that WE shouldn't be getting involved with younger women despite the fact that we DID NOT have those same experiences they had when we were younger. Now THAT'S despicable." is wrong and confusing.

You seem to be saying that women, when they were young, dated young guys. but that YOU weren't one of those guys and were told not to date those young girls. I think you've mixed something up in that.

Don't call others despicable because of your lack of experience. Random chance and your own decisions are what dictates your lack of experience - not anyone else.

I've only had a handful of relationships. Most quite short. Two long distance. Only one was when I was 18, none before that. When I was 20, yes, I felt inadequate. But at the same time, I wouldn't blame anyone even if I did have my negative perceptions (namely that I believed I was hideous, annoying, and pathetic) - I knew those were my perceptions, and that the reason why I wasn't in a relationship had more to do with random chance and my own inhibitions.

Again - you're the only person stopping yourself from having a relationship.

You are not a mind-control device, and you're not a telepath. You can't tell what everyone is thinking about you, even if they were to turn you down.