hi pinkispretty
no it doesnt sound like a healthy relationship at all. he sounds very immature and you seem to lack trust in him. it sounds like you could benefit from some individual counseling to work on your issues and the two of you some couples counseling to work on communication skills and maybe even some coparenting classes to learn how to set boundaries with the ex. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome