I am hoping to get some closure to a past relationship (2 years ago) that has been haunting me.

My ex of a little over 2 years recently got married. It was an intercultural relationship (I am american he is indian background), and it lasted for almost 3 years. We were in love and he and had discussed a future (Marriage, children) together. After about a year and a half together, I ended up getting pregnant. I knew at the time (I was 26, he was 27) we were in places of our lives where we were not fit to be parents financially, and we decided not to keep it. A big part of me wanted to, and it has psychologically and emotionally scarred me going through the experience. He never told his family about me or the abortion. He finished his masters degree and had to leave the state for work so we were long distance for awhile. He broke up with me aboover text message 7 months after the abortion, but would continue to message me saying he loved me and that it was just a complicated situation.

Time passed and I dated other men and my ex and I stopped talking. He would occasionally message me that he missed me but nothing came of it. In the few months he tried to see me again and even messaged me to tell me he was moving to India and needed to see me. I told him I couldn't do it, and a week later I saw on social media that he got married. I know he wanted to sleep with me one last time and it made me feel very irrelevant to him. A part of me wanted to tell his family or wife what he did but I know it won't do much. I know these things happen to women all the time, but it does not make it feel any better. I would like to know how to move on and free myself from the misery he put me through.