The title of the thread ..... Yes that !

If you say " damn I had a lousy week at work ..... Okay I see nothing wrong, If its a daily or weekly thing? Well then you need to make changes... Process your feelings .. The fact is most people wind up in jobs that aren't what they want. Maybe look for a different job?

The statement " Another crappy week in a crappy life " <~~~ That is going to pull her into it...She will most likely feel that if you have a crappy life then you are happy about nothing , and that nothing will include her... So how can she continue to be supportive when shes in your life and your often saying you have a crappy life?

Resentment will build, she obviously she isn't going to want to hear or offer much support...How can you blame her if you look at this situation logically?

I do understand your feeling terrible and in a bad place emotionally.. Your T gave up on you ? Okay then you need a different T... You have many issues that Therapy can really help you with. ..

I remember about 5 years ago when I was diagnosed Bipolar and everything was a total train wreck, I felt I had no self worth , my esteem was not to be found... Hubby would come home from work everyday and ask how my day was and I would unload about how terrible it was and how I am really just hating life..... This went on for a few weeks .... My Husband stopped me one night and said ... Is your life so terrible that you hate everything?? I said Yes ( getting mad) he said , so you don't love me ? you don't love your daughter, you don't love your friends or your Dog ? Bam ,,, It hit me like a ton of bricks, I felt terrible. Yes hes my spouse but that doesn't mean hes is my personal verbal punching bag.

I decided that I had to make changes I learned ways in Therapy to understand how my outlook and negative things that I was just soaking in was toxic to my marriage.. I found friend here on PC that when I need to rant ,rave, moan and having bytchfit or a pity party to talk to, Because they are going to "get it "

Sure I still talk to my husband when I really need him to understand that I am in a bad spot and I need him to hug me , remind me things will improve/work out... But I don't lay it all on him. My friends here, My Therapist, talking to my dog, writing in a journal , start a blog , get it all out of your head , But you need to spread it around .