And just as an aside - no, I don't want to get her fired. That makes me feel like complete sh#t. I still love her and want her to be happy, but I have to weigh up the amount of crap she has had me wade through under her supposed professional services. I'm not a doormat, I won't passively shut the hell up because it's convenient - if I truly feel it is the RIGHT thing to do, then I will do it. And if - and it is a very big if indeed, as there are plenty of loopholes in the system - it tarnishes her career, that will not be MY fault. It will be her own fault, for making a balls of her job.