Thanks for the opportunity Kimmy Dawn. I came to this site as a newbie to computer. and have even learnt technical things. + I came here thinking I could understand things about my son in psych hospital but then realized I was getting help for myself. So much happened to me as a child, and i saw others went thru similar. I never sought real help for that and probably never will (I mean a therapist) but I suddenly dont feel unheard. I told so many people my whole life and never felt heard.... but members here do hear... ((((hugs to everyone))))