OMG Never. I on the other hand, told him to go f**** himself. Bad Moxie Bad. I had to apologies. He refused to communicate with me if I could not conduct myself in a non abusive manner.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
Last edited by TheWell; Mar 04, 2015 at 03:23 PM.
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