It seems to me there are two separate things going on in this post, but both are about how we communicate with our t. One, do we ever use profanity? Yes, we might. Because we both might in our personal lives, and after almost ten years we are probably comfortable enough with each other to handle it.

But the other thing i see here is, i cant think of anything that i think my t would have an answer for, that he would be withholding from me. I have the answers to me, not him; im the expert. Hes more the sounding board. so that part of your question confuses me.