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Originally Posted by hankster
It seems to me there are two separate things going on in this post, but both are about how we communicate with our t. One, do we ever use profanity? Yes, we might. Because we both might in our personal lives, and after almost ten years we are probably comfortable enough with each other to handle it.
But the other thing i see here is, i cant think of anything that i think my t would have an answer for, that he would be withholding from me. I have the answers to me, not him; im the expert. Hes more the sounding board. so that part of your question confuses me.
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hankster, I asked her if she thought I might be successful in graduate school, and she said "yes." I said why? she said "because youre human and you have potential." i said okay, but what is it specifically about me that makes you think that I could be successful?" and she basically just kept saying the only reason I'd fail is if I wanted to, bc I had potential bc I was human and alive.
So she got tired of me asking her to elaborate on something specific to me, more than my species and beating heart, which I share with everyone else living on the planet. So she got mad.