i am just the opposite i love people could listen to them even when they're complaining, i need people but have few in my life. i am like a rock that does not roll because i am housebound because of my mental issues and pshysical disabilities. i do understand people who do not want to socialise and am aware enough to judge who to talk to and who not to. it could be differrent for others on differrent days too. i usually let the other person talk, but i do admit i like to have a 2 way conversation although it doesn't bother me if not.