How do I handle my girlfriend talking to a guy friends


I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now, and it's been a roller coaster of a ride. Both good and bad.more good tho none the less things are great between us, when we're both happy, it's the most amazing time of my life, a time I don't want to let go. But when things aren't so great, it absolutely sucks and I wish it could go back to the happy times.

Over the past few weeks she's been talking to guy friends and adding them to facebook I haven't met them but she said they work together. Now I don't have a problem with her talking to guys, but what I do have a problem with is the the fact that She gets extremely upset with me every time I bring up how uncomfortable I am with it. And she keeps saying that there's nothing going on and that I have to get over it. If I can't then she's leaving me.

Every time they talk she'll tilt her phone a bit so I can't see, and I'm falling asleep, she'll move her screen so I can't see. She says she doesn't like people looking at her screen, but I just don't know.

I want to believe her, I want to trust her and I want to be okay with this. But I just can't. Maybe I'm jealous, maybe I'm insecure in my abilities to keep her as my girlfriend.

I just don't know how to handle this. I just want to be okay with it.

She's amazing and I love her. And I might be reading this so incorrectly that I'm being an idiot. But I don't want to lose her.