yea...your right actually...i dont understand what to expect from a man and what to accept ...i take what i can get cuz every guy (from my two dads, to my guy family members, to guy friends) just never helped me with a healthy boundary and healthy relationship...so i always thought it was a major major act of curtisy lol...guys confuse me....but i think i will talk to him about setting boundarys....he will do the boundary thing for his brother and sister but i dont see him talking to his parents....its a major disrespect.....like kick you out of the family and dont return disrespect.....and i dont think id ask him to do that for me....lol i have no family at all....so.....thats got to say something lol