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Old Mar 04, 2015, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Gavinandnikki View Post
Yes!

How can you be the therapist when you sometimes/frequently act like a girlfriend/lover? Oh, and lets offer you a job too?

She was messing with your head for a very long time and you finally said, no more, unacceptable, I am done.

But it's so hard when you have love and longings.

Personally, I think you are handling this as well as can be expected. Actually, better than expected because you have such tremendous insight into the process.
I lost all points for dignity and sophistication with my begging to come back after an influx of child sex abuse memories, though.

And now she is simply ignoring me. Didn't respond to my questions as to whether she will still come see my horse when I ship her over, or come to my event. Radio silence.
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