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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
I originally was attracted to poly because it seemed like a great way to have several meaningful relationships with people I love, and then this thing with my T...as I say, I'm not even sure what it was, but it began to enter my head that if I was capable of loving somebody like that, maybe I wanted to settle down with one person (not her, but I mean I was surprised by how intensely I focused on one person) and become monogamous again.
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From what I've experienced in therapy, I don't see the therapist/client relationship as like any other "civilian" relationship. It just taps into so much deep stuff without the day-to-day routine that comes with other relationships, or even light fun times like going to the movies. I wouldn't take the way someone reacts to a therapist as the way they're going to relate to other people.
Which is part of how your T related to you so wrong.