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Originally Posted by Lovable Nut
Ali - You have a great doctor and sound like you've done some wonderful work. I love hearing about great progress. I will look at Antwone Fisher. It is the caring that is foreign and scary to me but I am starting to allow it bit by bit.
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Yes he was great. Yours sound pretty good too. That movie is damn good
but it's also helpful. The relationship Antwone has with his psychiatrist is a good example for both of us I think... I know what you mean - having someone care for you- no strings attached, no conditions, no catch... that is freaky!! I guess in the beg. part of me thought that I had to give my former psychiatrist something in exchange for his love, but he helped me realize unlike my abuser there are people out there who will give and not take.
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Originally Posted by Lovable Nut
Restin - I will read up on paternal transference. My T is rock solid and a master at his profession. He's make mistakes but we always work through them and agree that that is where much growth has taken place. He actually says he learns from me frequently.....wow!
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That is the best! When you have a T who acknowledges you've taught them as well! It is an amazing feeling that you can touch someone in their profession...make a difference! I would never let them go
