I do not think there is anything wrong with being kinky, but you are right the abuse somehow must be cleansed. Just that I am not sure how. I have forgiven my father but perhaps I have not forgiven myself (I was not a very good person in my youth)
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Yes, it sounds like the answers you got to problems or challenges were expressing anger and abuse towards others. At least you are at a point where you are learning about how that has developed in you. That has to happen first so you can begin to make efforts to change that reaction and doing something more positive and productive and more empowering instead. It really takes time to rework negative reactions that have been hardwired into you through no fault of your own.
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