Upset with my grown children because they have hurt me and are so inattentive . My husband and I are getting quite old and have many health issues but they don't really keep up with us or visit. Too busy , too self focused even though we have really tried to be kind and generous. There have been times that were better but we are really struggling now and wish they cared for us better. Wish they could change their schedule a little bit to make time for us. It is so hard and it has been so long and there are grandchildren involved. This is extremely hurtful and now I have gotten painfully angry. The anger is making me sicker. We have tried to speak to them but all we hear is how busy their schedule is but all we want is like once a month . It is sad that they can't see the way they are being towards us. I fear they will live to regret it. We now know what it is like to be without those elders that we loved. If I could have them back I would be more attentive! People just don't realize!