Dear Individual T: Thanks so much for giving lots of thought to and consulting colleagues (while maintaining my confidentiality) to determine the best course of action regarding my feelings for my marriage counselor (MC). It really means a lot to me and shows me that you care about me.

Dear MC: (I know I posted something to you yesterday, but I think this is just hitting me now.) Oh God, I confessed my attraction for you, "both emotionally and physically." You were totally awesome about it, but I'm still kind of freaking out over the fact that you now know. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaagh! OK, I feel a little better now.