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Originally Posted by WrkNPrgress
This. Although I agree that you're realizing your feeling "young" is a good thing because you're accessing something that might have been repressed there but I'm curious as to what you're experience as "angry" from your T.
A T should have a certain level of emotional detachment. They can get caught up sometimes but they should never be angry. Period. Your the client.
I'm pretty sure you are doing nothing that deserves anger.
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She says she never gets angry but she lies.
This most recent time she got mad at my line of questioning and yelled at me that I was pi$$ing her off, i ask and ask and ask and she answers, am i really going to ****ing ask her again? Why do I keep asking the same god-damn question?"
In session yesterday she acted like it was no big deal, she lost it for a minute, but the emotion was fleeting, it went through her and disappeared. What did I want to talk about today? I felt brushed off. Again. For me it felt like a major rupture. For her it was nothing. She doesn't get it at all.
And no, I didn't deserve her anger for this- but she still feels like I had something to apologize to her for. I did apologize bc it was what she wanted, but I feel conflicted apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong, I was just trying to talk about something concerning me.