Some of the things I did, was I went to therapy, that helped me through the problems that were causing me to feel self harm. I talked to my friends and to my surprise I had a few friends that harmed them selves, that helped me by knowing I wasn't the only one struggling, and to know that some of them stopped doing it and gave me pointers to stop, and the friends that had never harmed them selves told me how it was affecting the feelings they had towards me. All of this affected me in some way or another, and here I am today to share what I have learned and how I feel about it know.