my condolances to you and yours too. i wouldn't be afraid to cry if i were you, it is part of the grieving process sometimes and if you have a good t she would probably be complimented by it. many people tell me i am the only one they've ever cried to or with and it is such a compliment to me and they even tell me that it is a compliment. i'm not bragging i'm very humble i think maybe that's why and i don't listen to someone and tell. i enjoy being able to be a shoulder to cry on too. it gives me a sence of purpouse, as i am disabled myself. therefore do not be afraid to cry, it is like a release valve for your health.