He paid the $100 000 for the house because it turns out the realtor was a scam artist and their house payment went up much higher than was agreed upon and they got the house taken away

He wants to wait until my son has moved in because he wants everything to be stable first. Part of that is for me because he knows how much I hate instability and I've been moved around and abandoned a lot in my life, evicted, blah blah. He wants everything "set" and stable. So him having a good job, being done with school, me figuring out what to do with my mental health issues, if I'm going back to school, a decent amount of savings in the bank, and not the indecision about my son and his living conditions

Yes I am a co-owner of the house. Him, myself, and his dad (because his credit is shot from the previous house incident). The house is paid outright and has no mortgage or anything. We were watching a show the other day about wedding planning (guilty pleasure of mine, reality TV) and he looked sad and said he wishes he could give me a nice wedding like that instead of something cheap.

I want to get married because I just feel ready and I want a nice celebration in front of friends and family. I never had a prom or graduation or heck even birthday parties when I was little and I want to celebrate something important to me with people I care about