((((zpe263)))) I've been similar to where you are. My 9yo son is who has kept me going. I tend to spend most of my time depressed or irritable. It took me about a year and a half to find a good med combo. It's frustrating, but you just have to be patient and keep trying.
You may need to straight up tell your pdoc that you want to try a different medication if the Seroquel isn't working. Or try increasing it if there is room to up it. Try being very direct and proactive if you don't feel you're being heard. How long have you been taking it? Are you on any other meds? If she truly does not want to listen, maybe try finding a new one who will. A good pdoc will listen to what you have to say.