hello i amin my 50s looking back on my life and my accomplishments; the life long problems i have had and how not only how they,ve held me back but how has my past effected others close to me? That,s a mouthefull. And too much for this intro. Just let me say not only was i molested by my stepfather at age 7 but so was my other family members.He intrduced sex to me with my sisters and of course he supervised. My real father died at that age and my mother immediatly married a strong minded pervert in the worst way. He eventually went to federal prison for other things but not befor ruining our family lives. He started somethings that never really ended in my family. Incest can be a poison in you,r heart that can ruin every relationship , but i wont let it. I believe in the bible, an old book yes but it has proven in my life to hold solutions to modern day problems. It has helped me to deal with my past and keep it at bay when it came to loving my wife and raising my two daughters. I have seen a shrink and go to a group meeting that is supportive. Keep you,r head down, keep swingin.