Purpleturtle, welcome to Psych Central. Sorry to feel your pain from a relationship that broke up uinder difficult circumstances.

In my experience, where it was impossible to get closure by talking to the person, I had to find closure in myself. It took me a long time because the pain and disappointment ran deep. I had some loving healing people help me so I definitely think a compassionate therapist can be a big help.

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