i was in a meeting and this woman was talking and being very animated. i am new to all this and mostly coconscious so not really aware of switching going on but someone, dont even know who is who yet, kind a step up with this total facination with this woman i was meeting with. it was like i was watching thru a telescope. and i just kept telling myself dont say a word, shut up shut up because the thought going thru her head were not very appropriate and would have hurt the womans feelings. after about five minutes, she stepped back and let me forward again.