I'm so happy your pdoc had her baby safely, a healthy beautiful boy! That's really good news. It's so weird you were at the hospital when she came in to have her baby, after you've felt so much distress over the separation. Some people would say the Universe threw you together at this crucial time. Dr. Jung would call it synchronicity. I call it amazing.

This is blessed news and my hope is that over time you'll be able to forgive her for letting you down for the way the separation happened and when she's back to work the two of you will work this out.

Underneath all the distressing emotion, I know you're got to feel relieved and happy, too, because not too long ago you were feeling worried sick about her well-being.

Sometimes it's important to drop the logic and to go with the heart. I know you were looking for an explanation for her actions and wanted to know why why why, over-analyzing while the emotions were running wild. When a women is 6-7 months pregnant sometimes dropping the logic and giving them some slack is the most loving and forgiving thing we can do.

You have a great big loving heart in there Scarlet. Hope you can feel it in a big loving way. It really will help, as confusing as it is right now. Maybe Dr. Jung was right about this weird synchronicity thing ... maybe.