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Originally Posted by AdamLee
Your tips have been fine, Matt. Was just looking for a little more variety  I DO want experiences from other individuals, as well. So far, all you have said is basically, metacognition and work on myself. I can not just avoid this guy. I have to work with him. He is on a team of developers and tech contractors working on a project with a client of ours. "Working on yourself" is not really useful advice in this scenario.
I want to hear from more people than, JUST YOU. Thanks |
I didn't say to ignore him, i said to work on yourself. That means work on your reactions to him, recognizing when you're feeling upset by him, and a neutral solution that will not put either of you in a bad position. He can only get to you if you let him.