You're probably right, but I know I'll never get the courage (especially now) to ask him outright. The more I think about it, the more I feel that the non-follow is a pretty clearly drawn boundary line: Hey, you're cool and friendly, thanks for being interested in my music and work, I don't dislike you...but you're my client. You pay me to tell you you're adorable and that's all it is. We're not friends.


With my hair, finding another stylist as good as him is sooooo not an option, haha. I told a friend of mine (after my first visit, when I commented on how attractive he is and she suggested I ask him out) that having a good stylist for this mop of crazy curls is almost more important to me than sex. I was kidding...kind of.


Anyway, thanks for responding. Truth be told, I'm having a pretty crappy night. I feel down in the dumps, ugly, and really cruddy about myself (stupid BPD traits) and am having a difficult time talking myself out of it, because truly, it's just silliness. It's nice that someone is connecting with me a bit.