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Old Mar 07, 2015, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Jaybird57 View Post
there are a thousand different reasons for not wanting to deal with reality. . . .The sad thing in this situation is that the person is a therapist and perhaps he is "pretending" not to see you. If that is the case, his decision to not acknowledge you is unprofessional and sadly immature. As the professional, it is his job/mission to be the one who steps out of his comfort zone and be the one to be brave and authentic. I can only hope that he didn't recognize you.

There is a small. . .and I mean miniscule chance that the individual didn't recognize you, but that seems pretty slim. I mean, he came into the room and walked directly toward you to address the person sitting next to you (if I'm understanding the situation correctly). I know that I have severe difficulty recognizing "acquaintances" in strange or different situations. Sometimes people thing I'm being rude or disrespectful and it is about facial recognition. That might be your former therapist's problem. I don't know. You'll only know if you gently talk to him about what happened.
Thanks jaybird. I wish he would be the professional and step out of his comfort zone. Fact is, he has known me for a long time so I don't think facial recognition was the issue. You are understanding the situation correctly.. he walked straight towards me... there were two chairs in between me and the girl sitting next to me. He sat in the chair closest to her and talked to her. There are any number of reasons he didn't acknowledge me... maybe he was trying to gauge my reaction to seeing him to better understand how to proceed in the future.. Who knows.. maybe he really will just never speak to me ever again, maybe he decided this and is being firm about it. But I don't think the girl sitting next to me had an appointment with him because she didn't follow him back. I don't even know what they talked about because I was trying to respect their conversation being between the two of them, and I was also experiencing a little dissociation and couldn't focus.
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